Many believe in the certain invisible string that ties us to specific countries, places and events which lead us to those who we are meant to meet, to connect with and find, and no matter the circumstances in our lives, nothing can change that. This invisible string, in some other words may be called destiny or fate, which so many in this world believe in, and frankly so do I. What exactly our “fate” is can be seen different and vary in different eyes of so many different people. Believers will tell you that fate is created way before we were born, may certainly be seen as “pre-determined”, something that has been written for us by an unseen, universal force, in other words – God. Many will say – no that can’t be, we are put here on this earth to create our own fate, and nothing else can influence it besides our own actions. I believe it is a mix – a certain definite mix of having people we are definitely meant to meet, with the support of the higher power and our universe, or God, and of course our own actions that lead to how our life actually plays out. After all, we can wake up today and choose to change the entire course of our lives. We can wake up and choose to live in another country, on a whole entire different continent. Who is behind any of our straightforward decisions ? – only us. Us and our intuition, or inner voice. Intuition, in my opinion, is something that we need to discover, feel, develop and just keep working on hearing that inner voice that guides us to actually making the needed, right, correct and universal decisions. It’s about finding your true inner voice that will help you thrive in life and will be in a way a guardian angel, guiding you towards making correct decisions. Diving deeper into this very complex topic may be seen as pointless or too complicated, but I am still here to break certain things down and share only my point of view.

In terms of me stating that nothing can prevent us from meeting those certain individuals we are meant to meet for the higher good of our lives, I believe that may be a true statement, but besides the very fateful meetings we are meant to have, we are still fully responsible for our life and destiny as a whole. As you may guess, I am mostly talking about the ” good ” fateful meetings, that leads us to a better life than we already have. Sometimes in life we can feel that not ” our ” individuals are being in a way sent to us, not the good ones, nor the right ones. Timing is off, a person is off, something just doesn’t feel right, the puzzle just doesn’t fit. So then, after having certain encounters with the ” wrong ” friendships, relationships or acquaintances, those who believe in God and fate, or either, definitely ask themselves ( I certainly do ) whether we were meant to meet these people who added either no value, no good memories, no love, but only pain, burden or lessons into our lives. Unfortunately, no matter how much we do not like hearing this and the whole ” meeting somebody for a personal, self-development “, such meetings definitely do exist. The thing is, we aren’t mean to get along with everybody, we aren’t mean to fit into everybody’s lives. We aren’t meant to be liked , understood and seen by every person we encounter in our lives, so breaking down every meeting or acquaintance into ” self-development ” , ” fate “, or a simple “burden” is pointless. After all, if every person we just happen t come across to would be someone we would truly need for the rest of our lives, how would we find our true, real love, true friends? Everyone liking you or understanding you, would actually suck. It would just take away that rarity and even the beauty of being misunderstood, so that the right people would then find you and forever understand you.

I won’t be diving deeper here into the concept of “past lives” “karmic relationships” or lessons we possibly couldn’t learn in a different life, because I always thought that is even harder to write about and break down, but many of us are here to definitely experience various different lessons, from which we must learn and continue with our lives. As many have probably heard, some people come into our lives for a season, for a reason and for a lifetime. – and that is definitely my favorite quote ever, you don’t really need to explain it much.

While the invisible string is a super real and true concept, especially once we also find that inner guiding voice that we will listen to and follow for the rest of our lives, we will find things that may have been hidden from us before by the universe. Things we would of not have found if before because we either didn’t follow our intuition, our guiding voice, and simply were not on the right path, not following our mission, or a true calling. So much for self-discovery, right? After all, if we don’t listen to ourselves, don’t have at least some sort of plan for our life or knowledge of what we love to do, would love to experience or create, deep down in our souls, how would we find anybody that would fit that image, whether it’s friendships or needed relationships? That is exactly why staying true to yourself is important, so that you follow your guiding voice, your true guardian angel, which will put you in tune with our universe, on the correct life path, following your own mission. That is when everything else will fall into place, and the concept of the Invisible String will play out in the best way possible for you, for all the good and the light.